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You see, in 1951, if you saw a woman on the street, or in a shop, and you complimented her, you would NOT be immediately categorized as UNDESIRABLE *DESPERATE GEEK*.

Why?
Because the average man relative to the average woman was far more powerful. He earned the bulk if not all of the money, he had far more rights and privileges, etc. Also, there was really no such mainstream activity called *dating for fun*. In general people married far, far earlier, they were dating for marriage. (Of course there were exceptions to the rule, but I am talking about in general.)

This meant that women were thinking about a man's long term qualities as well as his *sexiness*. It was not a *singles culture* like today, where nothing need last more than a day. Okay, so do you see what is going on here?
Are you tired of the same old routine first dates? Need a change from the dinner and a movie routine? Why not do something that gives you some insight into each other’s personality and is interesting? Not that I’m totally against dinner and a movie as a first date or even a tenth date. There is the benefit that you don’t have to think about what you’re going to say next for at least 90 minutes (even longer if it’s a Kevin Costner epic). I just think that a change needs to occur when I’ve seen all of the movies playing this month at the local megaplex. Another downside to dinner and a movie is that it can be inconvenient for those of us who work the nightshift. So I am offering the following ideas to inspire you to get out of the dating rut, whether it’s your first or tenth.
This is why being a “nice guy” is disastrous. Most attractive women simply do not appreciate “nice-ness” since WOMEN think that if you would be as superior as they are, you would then not be nice.

To them, nice is for people who are inferior. After all, THEY don’t have to be nice- and look how everyone kisses up to them and respects them.

Get it?

Attractive women just assume nice = loser.

THIS BRINGS US TO LESSON #1:

Since being “nice” (i.e. telling her she is sexy, buying her things, always being there when she asks, etc.) simply makes her feel you are inferior to her and that you need her, and this just confirms that she is superior and that it is therefore okay to ABUSE you….
And if you think I am being one bit sentimental, I'd like to back myself up with some cold hard concrete facts. In a comprehensive study of people (This is all documented in a book called EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE) who were successful in their lives, it was revealed that the most accurate
predictor of a person's success was NOT their I.Q.

Nope, intelligence in the old fashioned sense just ain't that important to *making it* in the general sense. Do you want to know what was far more important to predicting someone's success in life?

My voice tone is lower than if I was all yippee-yay, and my pace of speech is a bit slower too.

This is all very C-O-O-L, by the way. And because we tend to get a bit over-excited by hot women, this attitude gives you the perfect balance of relaxation, alertness, and being cool.

Jitters, nerves, anxiety simply cannot live in this environment of slow motion. Kind of like how heat can't be generated unless the molecules speed up.

You want to be COOL?

The slow down EVERYTHING, let the molecules slow down for the coolness to set in.


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